LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE - Law of Gender

The Law of Gender

 All things have both masculine and feminine aspects.

The law of gender proposes that everything in the universe, including ourselves, have within us both masculine and feminine energies.  It's not about biological gender identity, but rather about the two fundamental energies that create and sustain all things  These energies, like yin and yang, are complementary and necessary for balance and growth.

Okay, so what is masculine energy?  In essence, it's a powerful force that, when balanced and expressed appropriately, contributes to a sense of purpose, strength, guidance and protection, both within oneself and in the world. 

What is feminine energy?  It's an invisible force associated with nurturing and emotional expression.  It's about faith, compassion, imagination and inspiration.    

The universe operates through the interplay of these two energies.  True balance is achieved when both masculine and feminine energy are acknowledged and integrated.  This balance is critical for personal growth and overall well-being.

The law of gender is reflected in our natural world, where the male and female contribute different, but essential, elements for creation.  The yin (feminine)and yang (masculine)in Taoism demonstrates the complementary nature of these two energies.

So how do we apply this law to ourselves?  We can start by identifying our dominant energy.  After we do that, we work to develop the opposing energy. This may require  stepping outside our comfort zone and working toward embracing new perspectives.

How do we unlock our masculine energy?

• Identify what truly matters to you and set goals that align with your values.
• Practice making decisions, even when faced with uncertainty.
• Focus on self-confidence and positive self-regard.  
• Make known your needs and boundaries.
• Develop emotional control.  Learn to regulate your emotional responses and express them appropriately.
• Seek adventure and build resilience.

How do we unlock our feminine energy?

•  Prioritize rest and relaxation.  Feminine energy thrives on a balanced state of being.
• Treat yourself with kindness and understanding.  Embrace your imperfections and practice self-love.
• Designate a space in your home that feels safe, nurturing and inspiring.
• Make time for hobbies and activities that bring you joy and help you feel good.
• Engage in some kind of physical activity to release tension.
• Do something as simple as appreciating your surroundings.  
• Spend time in Nature.  Nature is a powerful source of feminine energy.  Spending time outdoors, observing natural beauty and connecting with the cycles of nature can be deeply grounding and healing. 
• Don't be afraid to be vulnerable and open with others.  Vulnerability can create deeper connections.
• Learn to say no to things that don't serve you and protect your energy balance.  Setting boundaries is critical for protecting and maintaining well-being.
• Allow yourself to be spontaneous and silly.  Lightheartedness is the joy of feminine energy.

Today's society is highly charged with the business of gender identification and gender equality.  This is not about that.   This is about the masculine and feminine qualities that all of us have.  We all have the potential to express both feminine and masculine energy, because both can be found within us regardless of our birth sex.   If we feel the need to present a consistent identity in society, we tend to repress or hold back these qualities, over-identifying the masculine or feminine role expected of us.  By doing this, we lose valuable dimensions of our character.

Applying this universal law to Nature,  think of the feminine energy as the seed and the masculine energy as the pollen.  Nature requires both masculine and feminine energies in equal amounts to thrive.  Our world requires us to pull from both energies in any given situation.  Our goal should be to achieve balance between the two in our lives, remembering that feminine energy nurtures and masculine energy drives. 

If you are feminine energy-dominant, you are the person other people will go to in order to get an honest opinion.  You are known for your integrity, and you will advocate for the under-dog.  Your power is in connection and creativity.  This may, however, get you stuck caring for everyone else while neglecting your own needs, or you may get weighed down by your anxieties.

If you are masculine energy-dominant, you are the person other people will go to when they need someone to step up and take control.  Others may comment that you are faster, stronger and better at most things than others.  However, you may also struggle with micromanaging the lives of others, you don't take criticism well, and may battle with burnout.

Bottom line:  In order to function at our very best, as individuals and as a society, this law encourages us to utilize both our feminine and our masculine energies, because that is when we are our most powerful.